Saturday, 6 October 2012

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh); A Mercy Towards His Enemies


The prisoners of war taken captive at the battle of Badr were amongst his bitterest enemies. Nevertheless, he made sure that they were given the best of treatment. Among them was Suhayl bin 'Amr who was a fiery speaker and was denouncing the Prophet . 'Umar one the Prophet’s closest companions, suggested that two of his lower teeth be pulled out so that he might not be so vile in his speeches. The Prophet replied:
“Were I to do this, Allah would disfigure me on the Day of Judgement, despite the fact that I am His messenger.” (Hadith)
In Makkah, his people inflicted him with every kind of suffering, eventually forcing him to emigrate to Madinah, and then waged war on him for five years. However, when he conquered Makkah without bloodshed in the twenty-first year of his Prophethood, he asked the Makkan unbelievers who were awaiting his decision about them: “How do you expect me to treat you?” They responded unanimously: "You are a noble one, the son of a noble one." He announced to them his decision:
“You may go free! No reproach this day shall be on you; may God forgive you.”
 











reference: writingsofislam.blogspot.com/2009/03/prophet-muhammad-pbuh-mercy-towards-his.html
 

Prophet Muhammad(pbuh): The Ideal Father And Grandfather



Prophet Muhammad was an extraordinary husband, a perfect father, and a unique grandfather. He was unique in every way. He treated his children and grandchildren with great compassion, and never neglected to direct them to the straight path and to good deeds. He loved them and treated them tenderly, but did not allow them to neglect matters related to the afterlife. He showed them how to lead a humane life, and never allowed them to neglect their religious duties or to become spoiled. His ultimate goal was to prepare them for the hereafter. His perfect balance in such matters is another dimension of his divinely inspired intellect.

Anas ibn Malik, the Messenger's servant for 10 continuous years, says, "I have never seen a man who was more compassionate to his family members than Muhammad." (Muslim) If this admission were made just by us, it could be dismissed as unimportant. However, millions of people, so benign and compassionate that they would not even offend an ant, declare that he embraced everything with compassion. He was a human like us, but God inspired in him such an intimate affection for every living thing that he could establish a connection with all of them. As a result, he was full of extraordinary affection toward his family members and others.


All of the Prophet's sons died. Ibrahim, his last son, died in infancy. The Prophet often visited his son before the latter's death, although the Prophet was very busy. Ibrahim was looked after by a nurse. The Prophet would kiss and play with him before returning home. (Muslim) When Ibrahim took his last breaths, the eyes of the Prophet started shedding tears. `Abdur-Rahman ibn `Awf said, "O Allah's Messenger, even you (weep)!" The Prophet said, "O Ibn `Auf, this is mercy." Then he wept more and said, "The eyes shed tears and the heart grieves, and we will not say except what pleases our Lord, O Ibrahim ! Indeed we are grieved by your separation." (Al-Bukhari)


The Messenger was completely balanced in the way he brought up his children. He loved his children and grandchildren very much, and instilled love in them. However, he never let his love for them be abused. None of them deliberately dared to do anything wrong. If they made an unintentional mistake, the Messenger's protection prevented them from going even slightly astray. He did this by wrapping them in love and an aura of dignity. For example, once Hasan or Husain wanted to eat a date that had been given to be distributed among the poor as alms. The Messenger immediately took it from his hand, and said, "Anything given as alms is forbidden to us." (Ibn Hanbal, Muslim) In teaching them while they were young to be sensitive to forbidden acts, he established an important principle of education.


Whenever he returned to Madinah, he would carry children on his mount. On such occasions, the Messenger embraced not only his grandchildren but also those in his house and those nearby. He conquered their hearts through his compassion. He loved all children.


He loved his granddaughter Umamah. He often went out with her on his shoulders, and even placed her on his shoulders while praying. When he prostrated, he put her down; when he had finished praying, he placed her on his back again. (Muslim) He showed this degree of love to Umamah to teach his male followers how to treat girls. This was a vital necessity; only a decade earlier, it had been the social norm to bury infant or young girls alive. Such public paternal affection for a granddaughter had never been seen before in Arabia.

The Messenger proclaimed that Islam allows no discrimination between son and daughter. How could there be? One is Muhammad, the other is Khadijah; one is Adam, the other is Eve; one is 'Ali, the other is Fatima. For every great man there is a great woman.


As soon as Fatimah, the daughter of the Messenger, entered the room where the Messenger was, he would stand, take her hands, and make her sit where he was sitting. He would ask about her health and family, show his paternal love for her, and compliment her.

Fatimah, knowing how fond he was of her, loved him more than her own self. Her great mission was to be the seed for godly people. She always watched her father and how he called people to Islam. She wept and groaned when the Messenger told her that he would die soon, and rejoiced when he told her that she would be the first family member to follow him. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim) Her father loved her, and she loved her father.







Reference: By Fethullah Gulen
www.apnicommunity.com/islam/46915-prophet-muhammad-pbuh-ideal-father-grandfather.html
 

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) - The Prophet or the Statesman


Islam is the world’s only major religion whose founder has been debated to be more statesman-like than Prophetic, by some scholars. This paper will argue that he was a Prophet, and prove that the teachings of Islam and the conditions in which it arose actually left Muhammad (pbuh) with no choice but to apply Prophetic knowledge to statesmanship.

Prophet Muhammad (pbuh)’s teachings fell in like with those of past revelatory prophets like Abraham, Moses and Jesus, and thus never actually spoke of Islam as being a new religion with new dogma, nor preached it under these pretenses. He preached Islam as a restoration of the Abrahamic archetypal religion, as well as the perfection of the two other major monotheistic religions, Judaism and Christianity; whose teachings were believed to have been corrupted over time. Through spreading religious dogma, Muhammad (pbuh)’s prophethood was not much different from that of Jesus, Moses or Abraham. However, he did differ through his application of religious law (in this case Islamic Law) into state law. Muhammad (pbuh) best exemplified a model religious state in Yathrib, where the people chose him as their leader based on his status and reputation among the people. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) used this opportunity to implement Islamic Law in Yathrib; a model that worked so well, people of the city-state voluntarily converted to Islam based on the fairness and freedom it provided. Muhammad (pbuh) was now in a position no other prophet had ever been in. He used the advantage he had as a prophetic political leader to negotiate treaties and resolutions that were beneficial to the Muslims and thus further enhance the influence of Islam on non-Muslims in the Arabian Peninsula. His strategy worked so well that within the span of a few years, he was not only able to get the majority of the Arab population to convert to Islam, but he was also able to gain further political control.

Islam has always been preached to follow in line with the two other major monotheistic religions, Judaism and Christianity. Islam’s close religious association with them may stem from the idea that their two religions’ scriptures and overall purposes have been corrupted over the centuries. Islam was then a necessary religion for the sake of restoring the original teachings of Abraham and spreading the true word of God. Through this logic, one can naturally assume that if Muhammad (pbuh) were the messenger of a religion that spread the word of God by way of religious preaching, then he would fall under the category of Prophet, not political leader. He spread Islam first to the polytheists and recognized the Jews and Christians as “the People of the Book”, confirming his continuation in the tradition of Abraham, Moses, Jesus and other revelatory prophets. Muhammad (pbuh) also recognized that the greatest threat to his message was polytheism and the only way to achieve his Prophetic goal was to rid the Arabian Peninsula of polytheism. Islam, though, would not be able to stop at spreading monotheism to polytheists. Muhammad (pbuh)’s mission later included either perfecting or fixing the corrupted religions of Judaism and Christianity. He preached that Islam was the perfect religion and that it was the combination of the original intents of both Judaism and Christianity, along with new concepts regarding law and justice.

Judaism’s corruption began with wanting kingship throughout their lands, a concept that was a breach of their covenant with God and had altered the text of their sacred scriptures. Christians were also corrupted because of altered scriptures, but more so because of their belief that Jesus was the son of God, and not a prophet. Muhammad (pbuh), through recognizing the religious sovereignty of Jews and Christians, also recognized that their converting to Islam would make his religion that much stronger.

For all the similarities that Islam had with Christianity and Judaism, it had many differences. Islam, in following with the traditions of the Abrahamic religions, was an ethical religion created for the purpose of bringing morality to the world and spreading the belief in the oneness of God. This tradition, however, was where Islam’s similarity to these religions ended. Muhammad (pbuh) was the first prophet, who actually applied religious laws and scriptural text into state law. The ascension into politics by way of religion was probably a natural and necessary step for religion at the time because of the failings of Jesus to conquer the hearts and minds of the Roman Government, and also because during the time of Moses, city-states were much more common than regional based states (i.e., America, Babylon, Rome, Mesopotamia, Abyssinia, etc). Muhammad (pbuh) took the ethics and morals implied through Islam and actually used it to create fair and just social, judicial and legislative laws for the state. The impact of these laws was best exemplified during his time as leader of Medina.

Muhammad’s (pbuh) taking over the leadership of Medina was based on his ability as a Prophet to most accurately interpret Islamic Law as the rightful law of the land. The best example of his abilities to translate religious teachings into state law would be the Constitution of Medina. Based on the only existing version of the historic document, there is evidence that the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) repeatedly emphasized, in writing, the notion that all the implemented laws were not to be under the pretense of human interest, but rather, to be under the interest of God. For example, the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) specifically begins the Constitution of Medina in praise of God, “In the name of God, the Merciful, the Compassionate” and refers to all groups of people based on their standing in the eyes of God, not himself, nor any other human. Jews were categorized as the ‘Believers’, and were considered a single Ummah (community) alongside the Muslim population, while the polytheists are categorized as the ‘Non-believers’.

The Constitution, in accordance with the Quran, allowed Muhammad (pbuh) to uphold the standards to which he believed all Muslims were to live by.

Besides upholding the standards for society, it also upheld the rules and regulations by which the state would function, both judicially and legislatively. Among the rules and regulations included in the document were the pretenses under which war could be launched, and the duties of the citizens towards the state. These two specific rules and regulations were particularly new to the people of Medina, and later to the entire Arabian Peninsula, because they provided guidelines to people’s lives as well as an organized form of government. The Constitution in its entirety, bound the people together by religious commonality, not kinship or tribal relations, as was still the case in tribal Arabia. Muhammad’s (pbuh) role in this new state was that he would be the Chief Arbitrator of Medina; a role later expanded to unchallenged ruler of the Islamic Empire after further conquest of the Arabian Peninsula. His role as the unchallenged leader, and may be a direct result of his Prophethood; there were only a handful of cases where he had interceded as a sectarian judge.

Prophet Muhammad’s (pbuh) invasions and conquests were based on sectarian conquest, but for the purpose of spreading the newly founded religion of Islam. After being chosen as the leader of the Medinan’s, Muhammad (pbuh) set his sights on conquering the hearts and minds of the Meccans. Though he began with simple diplomatic treaties like the Treaty of Hudaibiya, he also was forced to declare war on the Meccan’s thus displaying his military leadership. The Meccan tribal leaders and Muhammad (pbuh), however, agreed upon the Treaty of Hudaibiya, so that the Muslims could make pilgrimage to the Ka’aba. Muhammad (pbuh), though he wanted the treaty to work, realized that it was an impossible deal, and attacked Mecca, once blood was spilt between the two major parties during the third pilgrimage and war was declared under the pretenses of the Treaty. Mecca surrendered before it could be defeated, and thus, Mohammad (pbuh) attained total control of Mecca and achieved his ultimate goal of controlling the sanctuary that was the Ka’aba. By controlling the Ka’aba and Mecca, Muhammad (pbuh) had successfully fulfilled a Prophecy in which he was supposed to one day control Mecca. Thus, Muhammad’s (pbuh) conquest over Mecca appears to be a result of his Prophethood, not his sectarian governing abilities. This would also appear to be the case because as soon as the Meccan’s surrendered to Muhammad (pbuh), he proceeded towards the Ka’aba to rid the city of its polytheistic nature by destroying all 365 idols present in the Ka’aba. Had Muhammad (pbuh) conquered Mecca as a statesman and not a Prophet, it is highly unlikely that he would have immediately proceeded towards the Ka’aba for religious reasons. He might have gone to set up a home for himself, or engage in a celebration of conquest among his military troops and army generals. He did not; instead, he immediately went to fulfill his duty as a Prophet, which was to primarily rid the region of its paganistic rituals and beliefs.

Islam is not just a religion, but also a way of life, and as such, its dogma crosses over into other aspects of life besides faith. Its crossover into social etiquette, judicial service and legislative services naturally provided a foundation for the ascension of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) into the political stream of life. His prophethood consisted of many decisions that could be characterized as statesmanship. With that said, Muhammad’s (pbuh) actions were always under divine guidance and intended to spread Islam (and never with the intent to further sectarian rule over the Arabian Peninsula), whether it was spreading the word of God to the polytheists, ruling over certain cities (i.e., Medina and Mecca) or negotiating various Treaties and Resolutions with non-Muslim parties. Muhammad’s (pbuh) actions always reflected a very religious and Prophetic agenda and never that of a sectarian leader, thus putting to rest the silly notion by some scholars that Muhammad (pbuh) was more of a statesman than a Prophet.
 
 
 

 
reference: islamoblog.blogspot.com/2008/10/prophet-muhammad-pbuh-prophet-or.html

The Prophet Mohammad SAW As a Husband.

How was the Prophet Treating his Wives?


Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) dealt justly with his wives, loved them, fondled them, and was patient and loyal with them. His actions sprang from a feeling of responsibility and because Allah the Almighty has created him righteous and equitable by nature.

Lady A'isha said that the Prophet of Allah (PBUH) never preferred one wife more than the others and used to see them all in their homes everyday although he used to spend the night with one only.

Treating his wives with equity never changed according to the change in his conditions. Whether he was traveling or present he was equitable. When he wanted to travel he used to pick without personal preference (through some way like drawing straws) which wife to accompany him.

He used to spend one day and one night with each wife except when Lady Sauda Bint Zam'a reached old age and no longer had sexual desires she dedicated her day and night to Lady A'isha may Allah be pleased with them. By doing so, Lady Sauda was also seeking to please the Prophet (PBUH).

Another form of dealing justly was when the Prophet married a virgin he would stay with her for three nights not to let her feel lonely and then he would spend with her the same as his other wives. When he (PBUH) married Umm Salama he said to her: "There is no lack of estimation for you on the part of your husband. So if you desire I can spend a week with you, and if you like I may spend three (nights) and then I will visit you in turn." She said: "Spend three (nights)."
Narrated by Muslim.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) treated his wife equally even in his last days when he was very sick. He used to go to each of his wives in her turn. Lady A'isha said that when the Prophet became too sick he asked her wives for permission to be nursed at Aisha's. They agreed of course.

In another narration, Lady A'isha said that Prophet Muhammad asked in his last days: "Where should I be tomorrow?" hoping it to be the turn of A'isha. His wives permitted him to stay wherever he wanted. He stayed with Lady A'isha until he died. He died in Aisha’s arms.

Although that the Prophet (PBUH) treated his wives with perfect equity in what he could control, he apologized to Allah the Almighty that he could not be equitable in what he could not control. Lady A'isha may Allah be pleased with her reported that the Prophet of Allah (PBUH) used to treat his wives equally and say: "O Allah, this is how I divide what I can control. O Allah do not blame me for what You control and I can not control." Abu Dawoud said: "Prophet Muhammad meant what is in his heart."

Because feelings are out of our hands and in the hands of Allah;men married to more than one wife are not obliged to equally love each wife but to be equal in spending time with them and expenses. However, the Prophet implores Allah to forgive him for loving Lady A'isha more. Allah says: Allah controls our feelings and hearts and made the love of Lady A'isha greater in the heart of the Prophet than the love of any other woman. That he could not control indeed. "And the ones who bring whatever they bring with hearts tremulous that they are returning to their Lord"
(Al-Mu'menun:60).


Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) stressed on the importance of dealing justly with wives because otherwise on the Day of Judgment the man will be severely punished.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is the faithful believers' example. Allah says: "Indeed you have already had a fair example, in the Messenger of Allah, for whoever hopes for Allah and the Last Day and remembers Allah much."
(Al-Ahzab: 21)

The sayings and actions of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) are legislations guiding his 'Umma' nation to the righteous path. We should follow in the footsteps of the Prophet except for the actions intended by Allah the Almighty.




 

 

 
Reference: www.islamicboard.com/seerah/134265469-prophet-mohammad-saw-husband.html

Holy Prophet as a Businessman:

 

Business was the family trade of our Beloved Prophet (S.A.W). He (S.A.W) learnt its finer points at a young age from travelling with His (S.A.W) uncle Abu Talib, who was himself a successful businessman.

Holy Prophet (S.A.W) chose this as His (S.A.W) occupation and journeyed to different countries as a trader (such as Syria, Busra and Yemen). From His exceptional character, particularly His honesty and trustworthiness, He (S.A.W) was given the title 'Ameen' by his fellow travellers.

Hazrat Abdullah bin Abi al-Humasa (R.A) once said, “I once bought something from the Prophet (S.A.W) prior to the proclamation of Prophethood. I was short of money and gave whatever I had, promising to return during the day and fulfil the amount and also requested Him (S.A.W) not to leave the area where He (S.A.W) was.

Afterwards, I had unintentionally forgotten my promise to Him (S.A.W) and returned three days later on remembering, to find the Prophet (S.A.W) waiting in that very place! He (S.A.W) showed no anger on His face for this and simply said”, “Where were you? I've been waiting here for the past three days.” (Sunan Abu Dawood, Vol. 2, Pg. 334, Baab fll-Idah)

After Hazrat Saaib (R.A) had embraced Islam, he was asked concerning the utmost truth of Rasoolullah (S.A.W). He answered, “O People, I know more of the Prophet (S.A.W) than you, as I was His (S.A.W) business partner before his announcement of Prophethood! He (S.A.W) was a person who remained true to his commitments, and no argument ever arose because of Him (S.A.W).” (Sunan Abu Dawood, Vol. 2, Pg. 317, Chapter Karaahiyatul-Muraad)

Hazrat Abu Sa’eed (R.A) reported that the Messenger of Allah (S.W.T) has said, “The truthful and trustworthy merchant will be the Prophets, the upright and Martyrs.” (Trimizi Shareef)

Our Holy Prophet (S.A.W) has taught us the true way of conducting our businesses. If we follow the teaching of Rasoolullah (S.A.W), we cannot fail. We will not only succeed in this world but also in the hereafter.

May Allah (S.W.T) give us the ability to follow the Sunnah’s of our Beloved Prophet (S.A.W). Ameen.

 

 
 
 
 
 
reference: www.janathimessage.co.uk/RamadanTopics/Ramdan_Topics10/Prophet(SAW)asabusinessman.html